to Ar. Eden

"How I wish you could see the potential
The potential of you and me
It's like a book elegantly bound
But in a language you can't read just yet

There are days when outside your window
I see my reflection as I slowly pass
And I long for this mirrored perspective
When we'll be lovers, lovers at last

You got to spend some time, love
You got to spend some time with me
And I know that you'll find love
I will possess your heart ... "

Tiziano

Tiziano Ferro este un Artist. Nu vad legatura si, ca atare, nu inteleg oamenii care condamna Artistul pentru homosexualitate.

Iar melodia asta suna, in mod evident, extraordinar in italiana :-).

we practice right for the wrong reasons

Suntem mai interesati de relatie decat de iubire. Nu iubim pentru ca vrem sa iubim ci pentru ca vrem o relatie. Iubirea ajunge un precursor al relatiei. Stim cu certitudine daca suntem intr-o relatie dar nu stim la fel de sigur ca iubim sau suntem iubiti.



Am inventat reguli care sa protejam relatia (monogamia, casatoria, etc.). Nu avem aceeasi grija de a proteja iubirea, de a nu o lasa sa dispara in luciditatea si pragmatismul relatiei. In diverse moduri sacrificam iubirea (sau in lipsa ei pe noi) pentru relatie.

Avem si argumentul suprem: le confundam. Desi:

relatia este ceva pe care-l stii ,
iar iubirea este ceva pe care-l simti.
relatia este o promisiune,
iar iubirea este o alegere.
relatia este respectuoasa si calculata,
iar iubirea este calda si spontana.
relatia este un bilant,
iar iubirea este un risc.

Cand iubirea dispare, nu ne intrebam daca am practicat ceva corect (iubirea) pentru un motiv gresit (relatia in absenta ei).

Nu sustin iubirea in absenta relatiei ci sustin relatia in prezenta iubirii. Iubirea este fundamentul; iubirea nu inseamna respect, acceptare si colaborare. Nu, asta inseamna o relatie, una normala. In lipsa acestora nu poti avea o relatie.

Iubirea inseamna daruire, dorinta, pasiune, vise, caldura, prezenta.

by benjamin

"For what it's worth, it's never to late or too early, to be whoever you want to be.



There is no time limit, start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing.

We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it.

And I hope you see things that startle you.
I hope you feel things you never felt before.
I hope you meet people with a different point of view.

I hope you live a life you're proud of. If you find that you're not, I hope you have the strenght to start all over again."

somebody

I want somebody to share
Share the rest of my life
Share my innermost thoughts
Know my intimate details
Someone who'll stand by my side
And give me support
And in return
She'll get my support
She will listen to me
When I want to speak
About the world we live in
And life in general
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted
She'll hear me out
And won't easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact she'll often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me


I want somebody who cares
For me passionately
With every thought and
With every breath
Someone who'll help me see things
In a different light
All the things I detest
I will almost like
I don't want to be tied
To anyone's strings
I'm carefully trying to steer clear of
Those things
But when I'm asleep
I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me
And kiss me tenderly
Though things like this
Make me sick
In a case like this
I'll get away with it

pentru Ioan

Am zabovit ceva la gandul de a scrie ceva despre (pentru) tine; m-am decis in cele din urma sa-i dau drumul, dinspre interior spre exterior asa cum tu m-ai invatat odata... pentru ca asa am simtit.

Simplu... sunt alaturi de tine.

Melodia asta este pentru tine, Prietene.